This Pussy WILL NOT Be Censored… Kicking And Screaming!

He said it’s not good for me to be writing books with sex at the forefront of them and parading myself around the internet like I’m bout-bout it too. She claims my sites are full of porn –this one and my main LaDramaPrincess dot com (can’t put the full domain in this post if I want it shared on Facebook without a spam filter on it as someone got me (I don’t spam at all) for sharing my link on there (in the appropriate groups and pages) months ago –way before I put the explicit pics of fans on it).

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Him, her, and they say I don’t have to be so vulgar when I talk. At times I am not. I can tone down, but you WILL NOT tone me down.

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I rebuke that! I hate to feel controlled. I feel small and powerless. I wouldn’t want that for anyone else, and it’s not going to go well with me.

Since the inception of this blog 11 months ago, I’ve always been who I am, showing all of this side of me. When I log into the dashboard on freakywithmeladramaprincess.com, I feel comfortable. No one can tell me what’s wrong, so why do I get that message when I try to be active on other sites?

“You can participate, but just don’t go over the top?”

What is over the top?! Why is it white women can be just as over the top as they want?  No shade to white women, but why does my black ass have to stay hidden and use laughable replacement words in place of pussy and dick to be accepted? Why? Is that the only way my books will get into fame, you say? I don’t think so!

I just wanted to drop this here. It isn't really relevant, but if you beat me there for a visit, tell me if it's any good.
I just wanted to drop this here. It isn’t really relevant, but if you beat me there for a visit, tell me if it’s any good.

As a black erotica author, initially  I am ALWAYS compared to Zane, who started off way nastier than she is now in her writing (from what I’ve read and heard because I have read only one book by her). Her old site where she got her start posting her stories and allowing others to post theirs, before she got the book deal, was just as porn-ish as my site. I am in NO WAY copying her, but to make a point here, why would I need to tone down to get any major deals of any kind? She didn’t. It’s dumb to say I would.

When you Google black erotica, or black girl sex blog, or black sex blog, you ain’t gonna come up with much. When you go on Tumblr you find a lot, but most of those sites are not for words much, they are mostly for pics. I want a mix of both even if you look at the pics first and maybe only the pics. There are people who do read, and I write, so that’s what I do and how it is on this blog.

There is a void. Anytime I go on some of those “extremely racy must visit black blog” sites, usually I’m disappointed. There isn’t shit there, but some heifer playing sexy and erotic, but nothing in her words or any images there suggest that she is. I don’t have time to waste on that. I don’t think you do too. When I tell folk about my site, the type of content, I want their trust that each time they visit they are going to get the same thing.

Some people hate my site, and like I said call it pure porn, basic and simple. They run. They probably come back on the low. That’s not my business. Mine is building my brand of proud, black girl sexuality. Sorry to hurt some of you gals’ and guys’ feelings out there, but romance books are considered the same as porn for many people. We are all in the same freaky boat. Stop rocking it. I get sea sick.

I think to many, calling someone’s work porn is an insult they’d rather sling that give it any compliment or to have to take it seriously, IN PUBLIC. In private, I KNOW this shit is very welcomed. Porn didn’t make the internet what it is today by fairy tales. So what if my stuff is porn. So what! I love porn, and y’all know that, but I just don’t feel what I write and post is porn.  What porn have you seen or watched that had all these commas, periods, all this wit, and good sense? None you were interested in!

Me tone down? You tone down those issues within you should work on. I have fans to tend to and others to cultivate into members of my legion. This site WILL NOT stay as great as it is, or get even better if I have to worry about changing and censoring myself.

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If you don’t see me collaborating with many others, just know, proud, black girl sexuality is frowned upon some many sites. They don’t want me.

To carry on my boldness…

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here’s this weeks’ episode of Submit To The Dark Side Radio. Oh yea. It includes (cue, breaking news sound byte)… The Porn Report!

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